The idea of women faking orgasms makes me extremely sad. Don’t do that. Don’t let that dude who doesn’t know what a clitoris is think going in and out is enough. If you make him cum you deserve the same in return even if he has to go down on you for 30 minutes or some shit. Don’t inflate men’s egos even more by making them think their dick is a magic wand.
If you don’t know, just ask, guys. It’s easy.
There’s nothing embarrassing about saying “feel free to give me a little direction while I’m down here” before you get started. It works and it makes things more fun for everyone.
And if you literally have no idea what you’re doing then ask the next girl you’re with for a lesson. She’ll appreciate that you care. It’ll also be more enjoyable than you fumbling around down there while she pretends to give a shit.